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Secrets of the Cosmic Child
She has waited for somebody to go with her into that dark and scary place, into the tunnel of her own origins. What would she find there but her own face? Scary scary monsters in the dark and lonely place. Scary scary monsters – a mirror of her face.
But the mirror lies, it lies, when we see only with our eyes. For what is pictured backwards is not as it seems.
In the tunnel of her origins was a thorn that didn’t belong – a thorn implanted by scary monsters, not of Mother’s Throne. Pluck the thorn from the maiden’s side so that she can realise all the scary memories are not as they seem.
Foreseen it was her holy purpose wanted they to delay the cause, planted a thorn into her side to make her believe the unholy lies. But foreseen even before by the Mother was what would occur – gave her the sacred tools to get by hidden in her spine. When the words were spoken the maiden would be awoken ready to live the holy purpose envisioned through her eyes.
And so the spine came alive, sacred keys are turned this night. No more lies, no more lies. She sees now through real eyes.
Notes from a Voyage
Today I have been engaged in the process of clearing out all of my paper work, including preparing a whole bunch of old notebooks for a ceremonial burning, and have found some interesting things.
I keep several notebooks at a time in which I write detailed lists of the things that I want to manifest, how I would like my life to be, and what would give me most joy to see, as well as the things that inspire me and various and random little notes on snippets of things that flash across my consciousness but are not specifically to be used for example as an article, a poem, whatever it is I want to write.
Every so often I collect old things up to have a fire in which I release all that has gone before, and I am always delighted to flick back over what I have written and see how it has actually come to pass, but in a much, much more refined and wonderful way than I possibly could have imagined if I tried to orchestrate it myself by enforcing my will on life. I just put out the intention for the most beautiful thing I can imagine, and let life fill in the details for me.
The other wonderful thing about this process is it shows just that – everything is a process. Dreams take time to manifest, and we’ve got to be consistent with our efforts and totally trusting in the divine plan that the highest possible outcome for all of life will unfold and that the very best we can do is to be a vessel or an instrument for this to take place through. Sometimes I find big big dreams that I’ve written 6 months to a year ago, and signs of its actual coming to pass in a very solid form are only beginning to show now. Not everything takes this long, we can close the gap between cause and effect and experience instantaneous manifestation, but the “gestation period” for these larger visions shows that when it comes to life’s big goals and dreams, it takes time and patience and lots and lots of faith to see things through.
Writing down lists is an amazing way to keep track of our progress, and gives us a great big boost when it feels like things aren’t really moving all that fast.
A Dove Caged is no Bird at all
The need to know is like trying to cage a beautiful bird for one’s own
entertainment, to look on it at will encapsulated in captivity. What
can truly be known when life is Unfathomable Infinity? What is beauty
but fleeting glimpses of Eternity? In trapping the eternal within the
bars of our belief systems, we lock our senses down preventing them
from flying free. The truest beauty lies in wild things left to roam
wild, in untamed life left to dance according to its own decree. In
letting beauty be without declaring that it needs a reason, the
dizzying heights of Luminous Reality that lie ever beyond unfold
themselves for us to see.
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I saw that I was trapping the bird and my heart burst open, a gasp of
unspoken tragedy escaping from my lips. To do such a thing is surely
travesty, and yet the innocence of my experience is reflected in the
snowy white of the dove’s wings. The wings spread encompass everything
and show that all is innocence, only the eyes that were themselves
encaged could fail to grasp the sweet perfection of any scene. The
dove shows how the heart in flight can see what the eyes of the mind
cannot, but yet the heart too must be set free.
Moving Towards Inspiration
Yesterday morning I revisited the feeling of what it’s like to be made to feel by another that your life is of no worth and you might as well just give it up. Like there’s no value to your continuing existence, and nothing beyond the tiny box in which you find yourself in that moment, unable to see the potential beyond the edges. I was surprised to find it there when I got out of bed, and it was very strange to perceive such a foreign sensation from this dramatically different perspective. I realised that the memory lingered like a ghost of my past self , though I had not even known it was there.
Over the years I have come to understand that the feeling came from not knowing that it was another’s reflection merely projected onto the screen of my soul, and nothing in fact to do with me. Not knowing, I took it on as my own and genuinely believed that this is how my loved one felt about me. This time I was struck with sadness not for myself, but to see the full extent of the grief in the other who had fully allowed me to believe that it was so. This time, I watched the feeling fade into a distant echo as I recognised with every cell in my body the inestimable value of my being.
Surprisingly and quite automatically, I found myself speaking out loud to the inner child who was now smiling and laughing, reminding her what a beautiful little thing she is. As I went about the rest of my day, it occurred to me quite how much we have taken on in the form of personal misperceptions having not realised that we lived in a hall of mirrors, and that nobody else realised this either. It is really down to each of us now to set all of these old records straight, and throw out the ones that are scratched and broken and are clearly never going to play again.
Throughout the healing process I have learned that how we perceive everything another says to us is a choice, and where we have played the victim before because we simply didn’t understand any better, we never have to even look again. We tend to hold back on telling others when their behaviour and conduct is unacceptable to us because we fear that they might take it personally. But this too is a choice. Somebody can either take our words of truth as the impetus to pick themselves up and change, or as an impetus to spiral further into the petty drama of pretending that they are somehow unloved and then inflicting this on everyone else. What most people don’t recognise is that we cannot truly love another until we love ourselves, and so if we don’t speak up for our own wellbeing then we are not truly loving our loved ones anyway, all the while fooling ourselves that we are doing the best we can. To allow others to get away with unacceptable behaviour keeps them imprisoned in a box of their own making, and we may well just be the ones who have come along to set them free. The kindest thing for us to do is to speak our highest truth in every moment, whatever the personal cost. This is always the greatest love that we can give.
I have found myself quite recently having absolutely zero patience for those who wish to pretend that life is up against them rather than changing from within, because I know that to do so is possible, and I cannot fathom the selfishness of anyone who wishes to drag those around them down out of sheer laziness and unwillingness to get real about the possibilities that are available to everyone if they choose to become their own energy source. There must always be a balance between inner work and making changes in our external environment, and if either is neglected then life as a whole is going to suffer. There is only so much we can do within to change others, and there is only so much we can do externally without changing within. There comes a point when we have the choice to leave the game of mirrors completely, and if we do this then to attempt to work only with the picture in the mirror no longer has any effect at all. The mirrors are valuable in that they show us the things that we are not, but as soon as we know what we are and have integrated all of the aspects that we need to live at our fullest then looking into a mirror which shows only a distorted view is of no further service. This is the point at which we must look seriously at whether we want to play this game anymore. If we don’t and the others in our environment do, then we are going to have to leave them behind.
On the way to here, we can oscillate between only seeing the flaws in ourselves, and only seeing the flaws in others. The first question to ask always is are we allowing ourselves to get away with unacceptable behaviour? If we choose to live within the game of mirrors, then we must be very careful in detecting what is real and what is merely an illusion that we have constructed for ourselves to suit our own egoic needs. On the other hand, if we have truly done the work on ourselves, then where are others who have invested less in self-change still treating us badly? What makes something unacceptable? Anything that wounds the sacred is unacceptable. Whether this is done by another or by ourselves to ourselves is our own call.
If we’re not happy with our situation, we can always change it. There is always something different, something new, something more in alignment with our purpose for being (which is to explore the potential of love). Our job is to bridge our inner knowing of this with our outer experience of it, and the process of doing so is not likely to come all that easily at first, because the very first port of call is to look at and then move away from all those those places where it is evident the potential is not being lived.
One of the biggest problems inherent among light workers is the concept of martyrdom, and feeling that our only job is simply to see the perfection in what is there. Yes, it is true that there is perfection in everything, and that mastery of our circumstances lies initially in peaceful contentment with what is. But that doesn’t mean that we can’t hope for anything more, and that we don’t dream of a better, more joyful, more inclusive, embracing life. It doesn’t mean that we don’t take any further action than to be internally grateful. It doesn’t mean we have to “put up”, it only means that we first must be glad for the gift of living before we can open the doors for any further blessings to step in. Furthermore, we don’t have to martyr ourselves. To do so is extremely dysfunctional when the highest service we can render is to live in joy. If our circumstances restrict us from living in joy, then the best thing we can possibly do is change them, by first accepting unconditionally where we’re at and then taking the necessary steps to affect real and lasting change externally too. It is such a fine line to tread that it can only be experienced directly, no amount of theory will help unless we pluck up the courage to begin making the changes in practical life just as we have done everywhere else.
On the matter of unacceptable behaviour, behaving unacceptably towards ourselves includes the process of not speaking up when something another does consistently is not ok. Let’s assume that we understand this much and we have already done that. If not, we need to do it, whatever the fallout will be. If it means we need to up our guard and buffer whatever hostility may come at us, then let us remember that we are here as warriors and our task when in battle against illusion is to do just that. Failing to do so means permanent entrapment, speaking up means minor discomfort for the period that it’s going to take to get ourselves straight again. If we have well and truly determined that we are being true to ourselves and others are not and have no intention of doing so, the time has come to begin walking away. There is no point in pretending that this is not going to be painful. But what is more painful, the temporary pain it’s going to take to flip the game on its head, or the pain of living a lie?
One of the very cool things you learn by getting tattooed is that all pain is temporary. It doesn’t make it any less real when it’s there, but if you can somehow manage to muster the courage just long enough to push through it then you’re gonna end up with something very beautiful that you can enjoy forever. I imagine those who’ve given birth recognise the very same sensation. The key is to keep on breathing, knowing that this is the case. What kind of picture will you be left with afterwards, compared to the picture that is there now if no changes are ever made? If you are the artist and this is your chance to create a masterpiece, how much effort are you willing to give?
The hardest part of walking away from unacceptable situations is that the heart cannot understand why it must be so. The heart knows only peace, beauty, joy and love, and so looking into the face of what might be destruction is incomprehensible. The only thing I can say that helps to come to terms with the reality is as follows: that too is a picture of its own, and is perfect in exactly how it is. If life is a gallery of Infinite potential, the choice comes down to which is the picture that we really want to look at forever, the one that makes our hearts sing? Where is that picture being painted? I know what my choice is, and so I will keep looking away from everywhere where my song is not playing until only the echo of what has been remains. I want the expression of my life to reflect my beauty in every regard, and I will settle for nothing less.
A Lesson from the Sprouts and a Tattoo Artist’s Wisdom
A Lesson from the Sprouts and a Tattooists Wisdom
This afternoon I went to tend to the sprouts that I have growing in my cupboard and noticed that they weren’t really growing at all. On inspection, the box that they were in was far too small and they didn’t have any room to move or expand.
All shoots need space to grow! If we don’t give ourselves that space that we need, if we try to squeeze ourselves into boxes that no longer fit, we can never become the things that we know in our hearts that we want to be. Our dreams will never sprout if we seek the comfort of boxes rather than the explosive nature of instead allowing ourselves to blow off the lid of conformity and break free.
Boxes – one of the greatest pitfalls on the path to Spiritual Mastery.
Professional tattoo artists who are highly skilled at their craft can often be heard saying things like “go big or go home”, meaning, get a proper tattoo or don’t bother.
This concept applies so well to the dreams of our heart, our visions for what life can be like and what we’d like it to be, and for how we see ourselves in relation to the positive impact that we can have on the world. There is no point whatsoever in dreaming small, because this is all that we’ll ever achieve if we do.
Perhaps we feel that our dreams are too large to actually be possible, for example we might need a team of assistants, we might need resources or equipment that we don’t have, or all manner of other things. If we cut the dreams short at that we stifle our own potential, and end up leaving only a tiny mark compared to what is actually possible if we tap into the full scope of ourselves and the magic that is already waiting inside.
My advice has always been and always will be to dream as big as you possibly can! Yes, some people are going to tell you it’s rubbish, that you’re mad, that what you want it’s impossible, some people will do everything in their power to cut you down. But where there’s a will there’s always a way, otherwise it would be impossible to even have the will in the first place. Absolutely anything that we can dream can be made into a reality if we work tirelessly not to battle external circumstances but to quell the battle of doubt within that tells us that Infinite potential is not ours to hold. Everything that we need is actually encoded in our cells, in every atom of our DNA, it just has to be brought online by the perspective that all things are possible and Infinite potential is the only reality. Knowing this, we can sing the praises of the glory of God because we know that that same glory is actually what we are, and what everyone else is too.
How can we but love when we see that freedom was ours all along? How can we be but grateful at the miracle of just being alive in a world where divine magic is at our own fingertips? All of this and more lights our DNA up like a house on fire, catapulting us into the reality that we were made for from the start.
The people who oppose us are gifts in disguise because they show us our own fears and doubts, they too are divine potential made manifest into form, and we can use everything that crosses our path as an impetus to spur us higher and higher and higher.
When we take everything as a gift and embrace it within the inclusive stronghold of our love, life itself is lit up by the gift of our presence.